A lot of articles have come out on how to pick up girls and mostly have, in one way or another, suggested seductive techniques on how to do it. I would rather not call it seduction since the terms have both good and bad connotations. It is better not to have it categorized on the bad side of the term itself. Picking up girls may be fun, but it should not fall into being a “hit and miss” kind of thing. Well, so far the better way to call it semantically is to call it “enticement” of getting engaged in the art of enticement.
As we started with the good and bad side of the art, we must also be aware that to pick up girls, the corresponding consequences may also be good or bad. Or it can also be both. The better way to deal with this is not to fall into the trap of getting too engrossed with yourself and making yourself too attractive or else you fall out of your target. Let’s put it this way. Everything that we do or want to do in life needs a blueprint that must be carried out with care so as not to suffer setbacks.
Here are a few tips on how to pick up girls:
1. Package yourself in the most irresistible way.
Girls are varied; and so are their respective tastes. Each one seeks a different thrill in every enticement. It is important to know how to find a way that is generally applicable to everyone.
The way you look from the outside is really important. Girls may vary, but generally they want guys who approach them to be neat and good looking. Boys are also varied. They do not look alike despite similarities in their ways. Never judge a book by its cover. This is what the old saying goes. But most of the time, the “cover” is really important when you want to pick up girls.
Before getting into the act, reassess yourself. You must have that distinctive competence that sets you apart from other boys. You must create the impression that even with average looks you simply have the “it”.
Many times do we wonder why some not-so-attractive guys get to pick up more girls than those who look handsome at first glance. For one, it is not only the face that girls look at when you approach them. It is your overall physical appearance that really matters. Say for example, the way you dress up. You do not need to buy new clothes to pick up girls. All you have to do is dress up appropriately for the occasion.
Your hygiene is also important. Make sure you get scrub yourself thoroughly, comb your hair, and smell just right; meaning not too much. You can try some popular perfumes that are subtle enough not to make her throw up.
2. Do not come on too strong.
Best thing to do is to think first before you say your first pick lines. A simple “hi” and a smile will do. After that first line is delivered, this will immediately make a girl curious what could be the next lines. In making your move, just make sure you know how to strike a conversation that is right for the occasion. Also, be alert on topics which she may initiate. You need to have a pretty good knowledge on those topics so you would not look dumb enough when in front of her and her friends for the first time. Also, do not make yourself too open and talkative to make her think you are just one of the ordinary guys.
3. Be a little mysterious.
Girls like guys who appear to be a little mysterious. It means not giving yourself in too much but not withholding the truth about you. Saying the truth does not mean bragging. A boastful guy will only turn off girls rather than pick them up. Do not ruin your chances by thinking she would be impress with someone who does all the presentation. She needs to feel important. Better still, when you talk about yourself, or if there is something in you that you want her to know and be impressed, just do it in an indirect manner.
4. Flirt a little but remain mysterious.
Flirting is always expected when one wants to pick up girls. Flirting is always putting your best foot forward but not too much of yourself. Girls always want to be intrigued or at least, love intrigue. You must be intriguing in a way mysterious to keep them guessing what you are up to. It is fun to keep girls hanging but do not keep them suspended in the air for too long.
Reminder:
Just a reminder, though. When you are trying to pick up girls, make sure your advances are also welcome. Your first few lines will already solicit reactions from her. Know your limitations then, and know when quit. She might be getting wrong signals so do not wait for that moment when you will embarrassed in public. For sure, the experience will be traumatic.
Lastly, do not think that picking girls will always lead you to the bedroom. Keep an open mind, who knows it could be the start of a very good friendship.
